I'm a girl and last night I Almost Raped My boyfriend. Even worse I didn't realize it until this morning. How you might ask? Well last night we had dinner at my apartment and watched a movie. After the movie I was wanting to get down to the nitty-gritty, but he wasn't feeling it. He didn't feel comfortable doing it because I have roommates. At that point instead of saying okay and moving on like I should have done, I continued to press him. Despite him saying no multiple times I pressed and did everything in my power short of taking his clothes off to make him say yes. Eventually I conceded. If I had succeeded I would have raped my boyfriend. Not by force, but by guilt. Ladies and gentleman guilting someone into having sex with you is rape. Plain and simple. If the roles were reversed and my boyfriend had done this to me people would be agreeing but it can also happen the other way. Just because he has the penis doesn't mean he couldn't have been raped and by me. Since this happened I did apologize to him. This is a social construct that needs squashed. Guilting someone into having sex with you is rape not sex. Rape is about force and not sex.
